Iron Gut

A little quiz for you:

Which of the following has Carson had a drink of or eaten:

A. Chunks of his flip flops
B. Dirt
C. Bubbles
D. Wood chips
E. Sand
F. Glue stick
G. Sneakers
H. Foil wrappers
I. Elmers glue
J. Dishwashing soap
K. Pool water
L. Puddle of rain water
M. Very hot and spicy salsa
N. Chunks of sponge
O. All the above

Yes, that's right friends. Carson has eaten or taken a drink of each and every one of those things. His new nickname is Iron Gut because he's going to have one if he doesn't already after eating and drinking such yummy things.

Exhibit A:

Carson--apparently thirsty--decides to just bend over and drink some nice pool water at the splash pad. Yum yum!!

p.s. For the record...the kid LOVES salsa!

p.s.s. I try to stop him. I honestly do! He's just too fast for me!

Father's Day

Our theme for Father's Day this year was "King for the Day" and we had a lot of fun with it! The boys had a blast calling Chris "king" all day, making him wear a crown they made him, and giving him clues to his treasures and back rubs and just serving him all day. Too cute!!

Each year I put together a dvd of pictures and videos of Chris with the boys for Father's Day. This is the beginning of this year's dvd. I put this on here mostly because Caleb likes to watch videos on our blog and especially loves watching the "dad movies" as he calls them. If you're really, really, really bored, you can watch and enjoy too. But BEWARE!! Chris has turned to the dark side since moving to Texas and so there is ample dark music (country!) Oh, and cut me some slack on not being able to polish it. Something about some meningitis going on and a little helper that turned off the power button on the computer when I was about half way done and smart me hadn't saved it yet. :)


We love Chris so much and think he is the best! He is such a good dad to Caleb and Carson!! So much fun, such a good example, and so loving and doting!

We also love our dads. They are too good to us and we miss them tons! The older I get, the more I realize how much they have done and continue to do for us and how ungrateful I've always been! We love you and hope you had a good Father's Day!!

How?

How do I explain to someone how last week could be so so awful and yet so wonderful?

How I wish I could erase the look on Caleb's face as he was in so much pain last week!

How I wish I could erase mental snapshots like this that will forever be ingrained in my head!



How do I thank someone for making my sick and pained son smile with their gifts?

How do I thank someone for praying for my son?

How do I thank someone for showing up at my house at just the right moment with just the right words or gifts or services?

How my heart melted as I watched Carson just want to make his brother better again!



How do I thank my husband for choosing to be with us and support us over not losing income?



How do I explain to someone how last week has affected me for the good?

How the things I worried about a couple weeks ago seem so trivial!

How I desire to be a better mom, wife, sister, daughter, friend, disciple of Christ!

How do I thank a loving Father in Heaven for the feelings of peace and comfort I have felt?

How my heart hurts to think of all the mommies out there who are hurting and worrying about their little ones tonight!

Scary!

Life is so fragile. It can really be taken at any time. No one ever thinks it will happen to them!

We spend so much time worrying about and being frustrated by things that are utterly and totally meaningless!!

We had a small reminder of that the last few days. Sweet, sweet Caleb.

Friday night Caleb just stopped playing and just put his head on the table to rest. Chris went and got him ready for bed and noticed he had a fever. He complained that his head hurt. No alarms going off in my head yet.

Saturday the fever continued and by mid-afternoon he had a crazy crazy rash. It spread all over his body. He complained that his head hurt. Strange--but still no alarms going off for me. I was just wishing it wasn't the weekend!! Why oh why must they always get sick on the weekend when the doctor offices are closed?!?!

Sunday morning, he woke up and his rash and fever were gone. I questioned my decision to stay home from church. But Carson was running a fever and I had a cold myself. By early afternoon, Caleb's fever came back. And then the rash. In full force. Again, Caleb complained that his head hurt. I asked him to show me where and he pointed all over his head and his neck too. I thought maybe he had a sore throat or something. By early Sunday evening I was getting a bit worried. Chris walked in the door and took one look at Caleb and said we were going to the ER. I convinced him to slow down and call the free nurses hotline to see if we should really be worried. Haha. As soon as we were telling the nurse the symptoms over the phone, the alarm FINALLY went off in my head! Oh my gosh!! He is having head and neck pain!! And fever!!! HELLO?!?! The nurse kindly but emphatically said to get him to the hospital NOW! I tried to wake Caleb up as he had fallen asleep about an hour before. I tried to explain to him what we were doing but he really wouldn't wake up and was not very responsive which only added to my panic. Although I know he was somewhat with it because he later opened his eyes long enough to say, "No shots!!" and go back to his delirium. :)

If you ever want fast service at the ER, just drop the buzz words "head and neck pain" and "fever." Dang.

They ran a bunch of tests to try to rule out other things. All came back negative. He had to have a spinal tap to confirm what the doctor already heavily suspected--meningitis.

Funny side note--during the spinal tap Caleb had to be sedated. One of the monitors on Caleb's thumb had a red glowing light that as he was coming out of the sedation, he thought was pretty cool. Chris had a good ol' time with him. They had the same conversation over and over and over again. It was rather hilarious. "Caleb, your thumb is red (because of the light from the heart monitor on the end of his finger)." "Oh wow!!! Why does it do that? Wow!!" 10 second pause.... "Hey Caleb, your thumb is red...."

Another funny story--after Caleb finished the spinal tap and had come out of the sedation, they brought in a little bag with several little presents. He was so excited when he pulled out this little car and exclaimed, "It must be my lucky day!!!" Again, we found it hilarious. Perhaps the staff in the ER thought we were strange finding so many things hilarious. But anybody that can believe it to be their lucky day after going through all that craziness and still laying flat on their back in the ER recovering from a spinal tap is my little hero!! He is just such a sweet kid. He smiled through his whole hospital stay even though it was scary and new and crazy and painful.

The spinal tap results came back and confirmed that he had meningitis. Now to fully understand my mommy worry--the only thing I knew about meningitis was that it had taken an old friend of mine in her 20's who had been perfectly healthy just a day or so earlier. And that the ER doctor basically told us this is very serious. Yikes!

We quickly learned that we were hoping and praying for viral meningitis and not bacterial meningitis. Caleb was showing a few signs of both so it was impossible for the doctor to guess. Not that guessing matters except to put my mind at ease!! We had to wait for the cultures to come back. We would know preliminary news at 24 hours and definitive at 48 hours. Praying for viral. Praying for viral.... Bacterial is just straight up bad!!

The next day we found out it was viral meningitis. Serious...but not as serious as it could have been!!!

Bottom line...we were released from the hospital and are now at home dealing with it.

Caleb has been a trooper. He has had a lot of head, neck, back and stomach pain. Especially after he thinks he is feeling better and starts playing for awhile. I cannot stand to see him in pain...it just breaks my heart. So we have been watching a lot of tv and movies. Bleh. :) But Caleb is in heaven about that part. :) Caleb basically has zero immune system right now so we cannot go anywhere and have to be ultra careful about not having anyone sick come to see him. And yet, overall...I am just so happy that things are not worse than they are. My hope is that things just improve from here on out.

I brought Carson in yesterday because he too had been running a fever since Saturday. Just an ear infection. Phew! Never thought I would be so happy for an ear infection! :)

We are so thankful for priesthood blessings and the prayers of many and their healing power. We are so so thankful for such loving and supportive friends and family. We have learned so much about being charitable and giving service. It is just not possible to put into words the gratitude that I feel....

We are also thankful for lessons learned. Another life event that just has an amazing ability to zero in our focus on what is truly important in life.

Later

16 months later...

...still climbing! Still giving me heart failure.


16 months later...

...still has the same kidney issues. Dang it!! Just had another renal ultrasound and appointment with his nephrologist. Kidneys are not any better, but not any worse. Focusing on the not any worse part. :)


9 months later...

...Caleb finished Joy School. He has had so much fun with it, and so have I!


Being hit by several Nerf balls later...

...Carson is out for revenge! :)


Several trips to Sea World later...

...yup...we still love it. (Can you tell? Carson is becoming quite the hammy these days. Perhaps we only produce ham bones.)


12 months later...

...Still thanking NCI for doing us that favor. Still thankful Chris now only puts in 40 hours a week. Still thankful he is happy doing his work now. Still happy he actually enjoys the people he works with now. Still happy we are now better off financially. Only thing left to work out is that dang health insurance...but that is a post for another day! (Yeah..ok, so that picture doesn't really go with that one. But it's the only one I didn't have a picture for and Carson is, I'm sure, happy about all the stuff mentioned above. :)

2 weeks later since Uncle Kody came for a visit...

...still missing him!


Too many years later...


...Chris still manages to get the craziest injuries in racquetball!!


4 years later...

...Caleb still just loves to help. He can do laundry by himself now. Granted...he has a difficult time reaching the stuff in the very bottom. No pun intended.


5 months later...

...I'd say Chris and Caleb's weekly violin lessons have paid off. This video was of a practice for the song they played in church today. Can't believe Chris picked up the violin for the first time just a short 5 months ago. Some people got it...I don't got it! A man of many talents, for sure. Speaking of talents, Caleb is doing well on the violin too and absolutely loves to go to his joint lesson with Chris and then out for dinner together afterward each week.

Soon I'll have to record Caleb playing too for your viewing pleasure. But later.

Fun Run

Caleb and Carson participated in the Wildflower Kids Run held last weekend at the Botanical Gardens. The weather was good, the price was right (free!), the scenery great and we just had a blast!!

We weren't planning on Carson participating, but when we checked in and got Caleb all registered, the lady organizing the event told us to go get a shirt for Carson too because there were plenty of extras. They had a 3 and under race and so we figured, why not?!? Carson ran/walked the whole 1/4 mile run and it was sooooo adorable. He came in last place, but I'm pretty sure he got the most attention. :) Everyone around me at the finish line was oooohing and ahhhing and running to grab their cameras to take pictures of the cute 15 month old running the race. He's a little distracted by the bubbles here at the end, but he made it!!



Carson getting hydrated for the run:



Getting distracted by bubbles at the finish line:



LOVING all the attention and giving his cheesy face to all his fans:



We were so late finishing up Carson's race that we were still at the finish line when they started the 4-6 race for Caleb. So he had an extra leg in his race to try to catch up. He had so much fun though!!! He has asked every day since if we can go to another race. And at least once a day, we have to go outside and he has me time him while he runs or rides his bike to the end of the street and back again.

Here is Caleb being a good listener--listening to instructions for the race:



Getting all stretched out and warming up. SO CUTE!!!



Rounding the corner to the finish line:



Ready for his prize after reaching the finish line:



A good time had by all. We will definitely look forward to this again next year and will definitely have to check out some other fun runs for kids as well!

Shows

So our family recently participated in a play at church.

It ended up being really fun, but there were definitely times that I wasn't so sure about it. I will admit that this is way (WAY) out of my comfort zone. It is WAY inside Caleb and Chris's comfort zone. Haha. Caleb loved being on stage. Caleb decided to put on his own little side show and quite a few people told me that they didn't really watch the show because they were too busy watching Caleb and his cute antics. :) He went to center front stage and was doing all sorts of funny stuff apparently. Oh well.

I have to give a shout out to Marcie for all those ruffles. :) And Jill for the costumes! Thanks, girls!!

Poor Carson was so sick. He had been running a temperature for five days (of the 104.5 variety--I'll post more about that later. He is all better now though!) We walked off stage and went straight home and Carson puked all over within two minutes of walking in the door. Phew! At least we didn't puke all over the stage!!!

And speaking of shows...the three amigos spent a bit of time together while I went to a two day conference recently.... We know what happens when the three amigos have a lot of time on their hands, right? :) And well...let's just say we have quite a hilarious constant show at our house these days.

This video just doesn't do it justice. It was in the confining car and Carson was being a little camera shy. But all Chris has to say is something like, "Who is a crazy monkey?!?" and Caleb and Carson and Chris all go crazy making monkey noises, beating on their chests and walking like crazy monkeys. Quite entertaining really. If you see Chris, be sure to ask him to see his crazy monkey impression live. :)

p.s. Aren't we so festive? Caleb in his Halloween pajamas and Carson in some Valentine pjs? Awesome. Even more awesome? That we took them to a church activity dressed that way.

Assorted

This post is like a box of a dozen yummy assorted Krispy Kreme donuts. Wide variety, oh so yummy and no reason they're thrown together in one box except for convenience. And in no particular order.

Donuts #1, #2 and #3: We will take three of those melt in your mouth original hot glazed Krispy Kremes please!



Nothing melts me more than watching my boys playing together--especially reading together.


Donuts #4 and #5: Those cutesy donuts that they make into nice pretty butterflies and such


Awww. Love those boys. Not calling them butterflies. Just cute. Like those donuts are cute.

Donut #6: I'll take one of those fun donuts. Those donuts that Krispy Kreme makes that look like basketballs and footballs sometimes. They are Caleb's favorites. They're cool and awesome.

Remember that photo contest you helped us out with? The one where we took pictures of the boys pretending to be private eyes? CALEB and CHRIS WON!!! Woooohooo! See? Cool and awesome. Just like the donuts. Thanks Fulmer Investigations for sponsoring such a fun photo contest and for the awesome prize of two cool tickets to the Spurs game. Those two boys had the time of their lives together. I'll have to make Chris do a post just about that night soon! And thank you sooooo much to those of you that voted for them!!


Donut #7: This is that nasty jelly filled donut that I hate and Chris loves. I take one of these reluctantly.

Chris thought he was funny. He sent me this picture of our car on April Fool's Day. Mean, huh? I was heartbroken. Worried about our car.

Haha. I wasn't heartbroken. Here's the real story. I had begged the help of a couple people to help me get Chris for April Fool's Day. Awesome Jo Anne told Chris she had to go grab something from her car and came back and told Chris it looked like someone had crashed into his car. She even had the license plate number to verify it was his car. Chris went out and looked at it and then decided to try to get me back. He texted me the picture above and said that my April Fool's Day joke would have been funny only if someone hadn't really hit the car. He told me that he was so confused when he came back inside and Jo Anne said, "April Fools Day!" Oh haha, Chris. Nice try. And nice quick photoshopping skills. Later in the day another joke was played on him when someone told him he was going to have to do some work at another location where he did not want to work. Haha. Thanks for all your help Cindy in setting up both jokes!!!!! You're the best!!


Donuts #8 and #9: That yummy kind. You know...the chocolate iced cream filled ones


When Caleb does things that are good (yummy), he gets to put a marble in his bowl. When he makes not so good of choices, he gets to take marbles out of the bowl. When the bowl is full, we take a trip to Chuck E. Cheese. This is the second time he has filled the bowl! You can see how happy he was with his prizes from good ol' Chuck.


Donuts #10 #11 and #12: That weird donut with all the sprinkles (as Brian Regan says) "scrunched over on the edge"

I'm not even sure. Caleb asked if he could make some popcorn so he could eat it while he watched his movie. I said sure and he immediately started getting decked out. Tie and church shoes, with a sporty shirt and shorts, crazy green glasses and some hot pads. I'd say he's ready to make some microwave popcorn alright!

I think this is the funniest face ever!

One day Chris was raising his eyebrows up and down at Carson just for fun. This is Carson trying to do it too. Anytime we raise our eyebrows at him now, he will try to raise his too...and this is what happens. So...um...you may notice that we raise our eyebrows up and down a lot lately. Just go with it.



Latest edition of I Spy:
Find in my washing machine:
One Jacket
One shirt
One vacuum part
One Notebook
One battery package
One violin chin rest package

Um...yeah...I don't know.


Today only! Buy one dozen assorted donuts--get one video free!

I thought this was so cute. Carson picked up the bat, hit the ball, threw the bat, and ran for the base. So...he forgot first base and went straight for second...we will work on that. It's amazing what this little guy is picking up on just by watching his brother! I love this age!!

Easter Fun

Another fun holiday.

Here is Caleb trying to get ready for the Easter bunny. I love the way he is looking at his brother in this picture.



And here is Carson three seconds later--climbing on the table trying to get us unready for the Easter bunny. :)

I love Caleb's hands on his hips, like, "Mom! You see this?!? You're going to do something about this, right?!?"

We recently made Caleb a little mail box that he leaves outside his door. He LOVES it! When he does a good job going to bed at night (which he does 95% of the time--we are in such a good bedtime phase right now! Both boys go down sooo easy right now! May it never end!), we leave him some mail and put the flag up. Caleb insisted that we needed to leave some mail for the Easter bunny. So Caleb wrote him a little note, drew a picture, put it in an envelope addressed to the Easter bunny and put it in the mailbox with the flag up. He also left a cupcake for the Easter bunny on a plate near his basket. He's taking mighty fine care of that Easter bunny, huh? Quite the little host. :) Meanwhile, Carson was trying so hard to spellcheck Caleb's letter to the Easter bunny and to taste test that cupcake to make sure it was suitable for the Easter Bunny. Quite the little helper!

Carson's first Easter egg--he scribbled on it and dropped it in the cup.



Some of the other eggs




The Awesome Aunt Nyn sent us a picture of some cute cupcakes she made. So of course we had to try them out too:

We had so much fun making these together. So some of them look more demented than others...and were supposed to have black whiskers that I just couldn't find...it's the time and fun spent together that matters, right? :)

More decorated bedroom doors:


A couple people have asked what I mean when I say I decorate their doors for holidays and why I don't ever put up a picture. Here ya go. Exciting, huh? :)

After finding all the hidden eggs and going through the Easter baskets...Chris took a little snooze...

(hehehe...can't wait for Chris to see this one on here...Caleb took good care of his daddy, making sure he was nice and comfortable! And photogenic!)


...the boys had so much fun playing together with all their little Easter stuff.

And of course in their matching Easter pjs.

In The News

Well, actually, you could consider it a slow news day at the Dials. But here is the news all the same!

News to Me:


I didn't know how much love I could feel for two little boys. Especially when I see how much they love each other. Makes my heart flip in circles.


News to the major league baseball recruiters:

Get ready! That boy can SMACK a ball. Left handed or right handed. It's a new favorite past time of his. Each and every day.


News to Caleb and Carson:


I actually do like and support child slave labor. Just so you know.


News to Chris:

Caleb really needs a haircut. Seriously. :)


News to the grass:

You're going to be oh so green this year...whether you like it or not. Those two boys are sure to water it each and every day.


News to Carson's future girlfriends:

Carson already drives with one hand on the steering wheel and one arm around his imaginary chica. Watch out!


News to anyone visiting our house:

Um, there was a lot of stuff "out of order" at our house recently. The kitchen sink even had a nice reminder. But thanks to my handy-man husband...things are all good. As always.


News to the same people visiting our house:


Don't eat the whipped cream. The top may or may not have germs. (I love how he grabs it like it is a bottle or something! :)


News to the carpet

Let's hope that Carson's new found love of making himself dizzy and throwing himself on the floor doesn't result in any vomiting. :)

News to the world:



I have the cutest, most adorable, loving three boys ever. Love those guys.